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December 25, 2013 Y 21:18


曾经读过一篇文章,意外地又让我再次看见,说的是 —— 如果想知道他/她值不值得去爱,能不能走入结婚或共度一生;那么就先和他/她谈一场异地恋吧。异地恋,是对爱情最好的考验。异地恋能坚持下来的人更懂得付出,更懂得珍惜,更懂得爱;异地恋能坚持下来的都可以说得上是真爱,并可以毫不犹豫地和他/她结婚去。

请不要再说异地恋距离远,不现实。什么是现实?是物质,条件,是有房有车?现实到底是什么?我只想说太现实太物质太聪明的人,注定不会幸福;也许傻子会受伤,可是傻子懂得爱,不计较付出,只有傻子才配得起幸福。若有一个人不顾一切的与你谈一场异地恋,那么请你用一生珍惜他/她吧,因为他/她只是单纯的爱着你,有一天也不会因为现实而离开你,不会在你最难过的时候抛弃你,只是因为爱的爱情。

异地恋太辛苦,幸存的太少,失败的太多。其实我想说,爱情本来就很辛苦,维系爱情更更更加辛苦;当爱情走向婚姻,俩人需要相处一辈子更是辛苦。不仅仅是异地恋,它只是爱情的一部分,它承受不起那么多的流言蜚语。选择异地恋的人都是很勇敢地去爱,去追逐自己的幸福,用自己一颗真心去寻找没有利益,不参杂质的爱情。若有一个人能陪你走完数年的异地恋,那么生活无论多么艰辛,他/她也一样会陪你走下去。如果我们的一生有一个人能不论你成什么样子都对你不离不弃,那么你会用你的全部去珍惜他/她,爱他/她吗?如果这样的爱情有价,我愿意千金散去——

异地恋的情侣,一个人吃饭,一个人自习,一个人在大街上逛街,一个人坐着飞机又火车的经过漫长而孤独的夜只为相见一面,短短数日。忍着相思的苦,耐得住孤独寂寞,抵得住各种诱惑,只为简单的爱着彼此。生活中,享受一生,两个人肯定会有分离。难道爱情就要因距离为借口而冷漠,背叛吗?两个人要是经不起距离的考验,又怎么能说有未来?无论是异地恋还是相守的情侣,感情都有平淡的时候,尽管俩人再多么相爱都是两个不同的个体,都无法站在对方的角度同视的。异地恋能为爱情保鲜,每一次相聚,内心都会激动,期盼;那么天天见面的情侣可会有这样的感受?异地恋能使两个人更加彼此信任,彼此给予对方更多的个人空间;而那些天天在一起的情侣会变得越来越少朋友,空间,最后却越来越受不了彼此。

之所以异地恋能让人更加珍惜相守的不易,爱情的不易。我想说,因为经不起我曾放弃过我人生第一段异地恋,我不后悔,然而我坦然地重新接受,如今我只能相信自己相信他。请你我都能接受,不要错过那个值得付出的人;请你我都珍惜那份异地恋,为了那份简单的爱情。最后,送给那些勇敢追求爱的朋友,坚持信念 ——  距离不会永远,幸福很近!

 

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